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condemnation and justification

what is the difference between condemning and justifying?

both are always possible..

what does it matter which you choose


I think as part of my obsession with human connection, I implicitly understood and came to understand more deeply that other people are justified.

What does it matter if I condemn or excuse.

Of course it is understandable. Of course it is unforgivable. Of course it would be impossible to do otherwise. Of course you decided otherwise. Of course this is what love means. Of course this is not.


but then I hear something horrific and i HATE.

but other times I hear something horrific and i forgive and excuse...