reverse kidnapping
it's only (reverse) kidnapping if they can't refuse.
could a butterfly or a plague dog refuse sincere kindness? or true love?
(why refuse what you want?)
(this is i think part of the extreme violence of love, sincere love will open someone up, flay and invert them, and can it be refused? only if you do not value love or are careless or something idk (or i guess have "love" in abundance?). like, other violences, if identified, can be refused, can be fought, can be rejected...
what besides love can threaten to destroy someone's soul